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Sept 1, 2005 5:58:10 GMT -5
Post by Toefur on Sept 1, 2005 5:58:10 GMT -5
Do you want to change or are you content to just live with your shyness?
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mspnats
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Stroking a purring cat is very theraputic.
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Sept 1, 2005 6:07:24 GMT -5
Post by mspnats on Sept 1, 2005 6:07:24 GMT -5
At this point, I am not sure what I would change to?
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Sept 1, 2005 19:10:44 GMT -5
Post by zoegonzalez on Sept 1, 2005 19:10:44 GMT -5
Some days - I really would like to be different then me. But the shyness is only part of it .
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Air Burst
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I only wish the good times would last a little longer
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Sept 1, 2005 20:32:15 GMT -5
Post by Air Burst on Sept 1, 2005 20:32:15 GMT -5
Do you want to change or are you content to just live with your shyness? I want to change. I'm sick of having no personality and not being able to start and hold a conversation.
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Sept 2, 2005 12:44:54 GMT -5
Post by Skeletor on Sept 2, 2005 12:44:54 GMT -5
I'm happy with who I am but I haven't got friends or a girlfriend or a good job. I don't mind being shy but it stops me getting what I want.
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Russ
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Sept 4, 2005 23:18:06 GMT -5
Post by Russ on Sept 4, 2005 23:18:06 GMT -5
I've gotten over a good deal of my shyness, but i still feel the social anxiety every now and then. I'm particularly bad at dealing in crowds of people.
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Sept 5, 2005 0:02:50 GMT -5
Post by Toefur on Sept 5, 2005 0:02:50 GMT -5
Pnats, you could become a Wooly Mammoth.
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Sept 5, 2005 0:31:22 GMT -5
Post by Toefur on Sept 5, 2005 0:31:22 GMT -5
I'm happy with who I am but I haven't got friends or a girlfriend or a good job. I don't mind being shy but it stops me getting what I want. So what you're saying is that you are fine with disappointment? I was, but not anymore. I hate myself for letting things get this way and not that things are bad, but I know I can do better. For so long I have felt empty inside, as though one crack would cause myself to come crashing inward. Not now. For the first time I feel angry and not the short lived anger brought on by mild inconvenience, but the kind of anger that sticks with you boiling your insides. I like it. There is no reason I should see my desires as a burden to others. I am not going to let fear keep me from what I want. If I want to talk I will and if all that should come out of my mouth is " so... pizza, huh?" then that is just all right by me. BY THE POWER OF GREYSKULL!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Sept 5, 2005 17:11:02 GMT -5
Post by Skeletor on Sept 5, 2005 17:11:02 GMT -5
I'm happy with who I am but I haven't got friends or a girlfriend or a good job. I don't mind being shy but it stops me getting what I want. So what you're saying is that you are fine with disappointment? No I'm not happy with disappointment, but i'm happy with who I am, that doesn't mean I don't want to become less shy.
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Sept 5, 2005 19:40:56 GMT -5
Post by chemistry on Sept 5, 2005 19:40:56 GMT -5
Toefur, I agree with you. Don't let FEAR get in the way of anything. I myself have allowed fear to control me for 36 years and It's not going to happen anymore. Chem
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